Please do not take this offensively, but a man needs to be somewhere between a Pomeranian and a Pit bull. I am not saying that men are dogs; I have several men in my life who I love and respect and I do not subscribe to the belief that all men are dogs. In any case, Pomeranians are a sweet, people-pleasing breed, whereas, Pit bulls are naturally aggressive and can be trained to protect. Both are fiercely loyal to their people, which is the basis of a good relationship; however, in waiting for the leader of my home, I would be more inclined to submit to someone who knows how to not only be adorable and pleasant, but also knows when to be aggressive and protect.
Nice guys don’t have to finish last if they have a balance of sweet and swag. The aforementioned men in my life that I love and respect show these qualities towards their wives. They are just a quick to send flowers as they are the stand up for the things in which they believe. They are confident, but not cocky. Their wives feel respected and protected. That is what I want. I am positive that there are other women who feel the same way. It is nice to get my way, but if I am headed in the wrong direction, I want to know that my mate is not going to stand by and puff up my ego while I walk off of a cliff. Women do like to be treated like queens, but by someone who can stand up and be king. Just like guys will date the promiscuous girl, but marry the pure one; there are women that will date a wimp, but will marry the warrior. Ms. EV